When attending a funeral or visiting a cemetery, you need to stick to a certain etiquette in terms of clothing, behavior, etc. If you’re uncertain about anything, we’ve compiled a list of reminders for the basic etiquettes during a funeral or cemetery visit. After all, you need to express consideration and courtesy through your behavior, clothing, words, and actions.

Funeral etiquette

• In terms of clothing, you should stick to something conservative (a suit for men and a dress/skirt, with a blouse for women). Black is not necessary, but bright colors are not recommended.
• Don’t be afraid to showcase emotions during a funeral. It’s perfectly alright to cry and grieve for the deceased. However, try not to show any anger during the funeral because it may negatively impact the family members.
• If you’re uncertain about religious or ethnic customs, we can answer any questions. There are specific customs you’ll need to observe during a funeral.
• When first arriving at a funeral, sympathetically greet the family. Don’t actively avoid talking about the deceased, though.
• Offer kind words and avoid giving unsolicited advice or saying something that could diminish the grief of the family members.
• Offer a tribute of your respect for the deceased and the family members – flowers, a donation, or a memorial gift.
• Turn off your cellphone before attending a funeral.
• You may choose to pay your respects to the deceased by approaching the casket and offering a prayer. It’s not mandatory, though

Cemetery etiquette

• Follow the cemetery rules. All cemeteries have signs with rules posted near the entrance.
• Avoid coming too early or staying too late in a cemetery. Obey the visiting hours!
• Don’t leave any trash behind you. It’s not only disrespectful for other visitors and the caretakers but also to the deceased.
• Keep your children close to you and teach them to behave in a manner appropriate for the occasion. They need to be considerate and respectful.
• Keep your voice down and speak politely when addressing other mourners or visitors in the cemetery.
• Don’t touch the headstones or remove anything from the gravestones, such as flowers. It’s disrespectful, and you may inadvertently cause damage to the memorials.
• Close your phone or lower its volume to a minimum. Avoid talking on the phone, as this may disturb other mourners.
• Respect the mourners’ privacy, and don’t disturb a funeral procession if one is taking place during your visit.
• Keep your pets leashed at all times if the cemetery allows pets.
• Drive carefully in the cemetery. Other people may not pay attention, so be extra careful